易經I ChingThe Book of Changes☰ 乾 Qián: Heaven, metal, northwest, father☱ 兌 Duì: Lake, metal, west, youngest daughter☲ 離 Lí: Fire, fire, south, middle daughter☳ 震 Zhèn: Thunder, wood, east, eldest son☴ 巽 Xùn: Wind, wood, southeast, eldest daughter☵ 坎 Kǎn: Water, water, north, middle son☶ 艮 Gèn: Mountain, earth, northeast, youngest son☷ 坤 Kūn: Earth, earth, southwest, mother

5 需 Xū Waiting

Judgement

You are waiting, and waiting here is not wasted time. Clouds gather in the sky and the rain has not fallen yet. Count on your sincerity: it is your best resource while the moment ripens. Stay firm and do not let impatience push you to decide too early. Crossing the great river, meaning starting something risky, may be a good idea, but only when the hour comes. Until then, look after what you have and stay honest with yourself.

Image

Clouds rise into the sky and do not yet release their rain. It is the image of something waiting for its time. And the answer is surprising: eat, drink and enjoy yourself calmly, as if there were nothing else to do. This is not neglect; it is trusting that forcing does not speed up what ripens on its own. Rest, look after your body, share a table. Waiting well is a way of being ready.

Lines

Line 1

You wait at the distant border, still far from the river. No danger is in sight, so you have no reason to hurry. It helps to keep your purpose without impatience and without giving up. That way you are unlikely to go wrong. Someone who waits far from danger keeps their strength for when it is needed.

Line 2

You wait on the sand, by the shore. Danger comes a little closer and words are said against you, small reproaches that sting. They are not serious. If you do not react harshly, it tends to end well. Bear what they say with calm, without answering every remark.

Line 3

You wait in the mud, stuck close to the current, and you invite harm to come near. Being so close to risk without need is an invitation. Ask yourself whether you need to wait right here or whether you do it out of anxiety. Step back from the edge: sometimes the problem is not waiting, but where.

Line 4

You wait in the middle of blood, in the thick of danger, and you cannot stay. But you can look for the way out of the cave. Do not fight the moment: give way, let the worst pass and look for the nearest exit. In a tight spot you do not need to be brave, you need to be flexible.

Line 5

You wait among the leftovers of a banquet, calm and well placed. Here the wait is almost a rest. The right move is firmness and uprightness: do not stray from what is fair while you enjoy yourself. It is a good time to recover your strength and be with your people.

Line 6

You have entered the cave, and you did not choose it: it is what there is. Then three guests arrive without anyone calling them: help you did not expect. If you receive them with respect, it tends to end well. Welcome with humility what comes unasked; the difference lies in your attitude.

Reflection

  1. What are you trying to speed up that still needs its time?
  2. Which part of your waiting is calm, and which is disguised anxiety?
  3. What unexpected help might you be receiving with little attention?

The 64 hexagrams