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22 賁 Bì Grace

Judgement

There is adornment, form, beauty: what is put on top so that something looks better. The course is good here, but there is little gain if you let it lead. Grace beautifies, but it is not the foundation. Do take care how you present yourself and how you do things. But do not let form decide for you: what matters is still what lies underneath.

Image

A mountain and, at its foot, fire: light bathes the slope and everything looks more beautiful. The wise person gives brilliance to ordinary matters of government, but does not dare decide serious cases of justice the same way. That is, some things admit grace and others do not. Ask yourself where it helps to look after form and where you need to be plain.

Lines

Line 1

You adorn your feet. You may leave the cart and go on foot. This is the image of someone who prefers simplicity to show: walking on their own steps rather than riding in someone else's cart. Ask yourself what you keep for appearance and not for need. Going on foot is slower, but it is yours.

Line 2

You adorn your beard. It is a small care that goes with the main thing. A beard is nothing without a face. Some details serve to enhance what is already there, not to replace it. Looking after your appearance is fine if it follows who you are. Ask yourself whether what you tidy outside follows something real inside.

Line 3

You seem adorned and bathed in dew, shining and favored. But stay firm and upright, and that is a good sign. It is easy to get carried away. Someone who stays sober when times are easy does not get lost. Ask yourself how you behave when all goes well, and what in you stays firm when nobody is watching.

Line 4

You seem adorned, but only in white. You ride a winged white horse to meet someone, and whoever stands in your way is no thief, but someone coming to join you. It is simplicity going out to meet, without disguise. Ask yourself whether what holds you back is an obstacle or someone who wants to come close.

Line 5

Hills and gardens adorn you. You carry a small roll of silk, a modest thing. You may look stingy, but in the end it can work in your favor. Give in measure and with sincerity, without grand gestures: a small thing offered truthfully weighs more than a big one offered for show.

Line 6

White is your only adornment. You are unlikely to go wrong. It is the simplest form of grace: the one that needs nothing more to shine. When you return to the base, what is essential remains. Ask yourself which adornments you could drop without losing anything important, and what would still be yours when everything else is gone.

Reflection

  1. What do you tend on the outside that has nothing behind it?
  2. What stays firm in you when nobody is looking?
  3. What could you let go of without losing anything important?

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